Good work, you made it on your first date.
Now all you need are some great first date ideas that will allow you to have some with your date, that is not too expensive yet fun to do.
But then again, you don’t want to be like everyone else and do the cliche things and come off as boring. So that’s why you were on the internet researching and came across this page.
Well my friend, you are in luck, because I happen to know a few great dates ideas that are cheap, inexpensive, but above all with get you where you want to be with by the end of the night!
Good first date ideas
I’ll have to give you a general rule about dates. Remember, when you go out withat that women on the first date, you want to get to know her and at the same time let her know a bit about yourself. That is why you want to be in a place where you can have good conversation and build rapport. That way you can also build attraction and make her like you even more.
Top 9 places to go
Do not take her to the movies, do not take her to watch a show, do not take her anywhere where most of your night date will consist of you two not talking to each other.
This one is very obvious, but many guys seem to forget that the when two people go out on a date, they want to be in a place where they can talk and get to know one another. if you go to a movie, or watch any kind of show, for the most part of the date, you will not be able to talk to her and increase your level of attraction with her.
What’s worse is, after the show, chances are you two will be tired and it would be getting late so you would not be able to get inside her head, have an interesting conversation with her and then make her compelled to go on the second date.
Some good places to take a girl where you can have a lively interaction that would involve a lot of great conversation (all of which are cheap!):
- Indoor rock climbing
- Mini golf
- Go shopping – so she can help you pick some shoes
- Go get some ice cream together
- Somewhere beside any sort of water, like beside the lake, beside the beach or river
- Go to a nice park (but please don’t make it like a gay picnic, this is not attractive)
- Roller skating or ice skating
- Go to a cheap but exotic restaurant
- A coffee date
As you can see, all those places are conducive to conservation and would provide a great atmosphere or provide an opportunity for you two to bond and build a connection.
- Bad First Date Ideas
- Expensive dinners
- Going to the movies
- Going clubbing
- Going to parties where a lot of other people will be around
These are bad first date ideas, because this is the sort of place you would take a women once you two are in some sort of relationship, where you no longer need to build that instant connection, attraction and rapport. There would be too many distractions for you to talk to her and get to know her.